I found out my wife was on a dating app, so I created a fake profile to see if it was really her. To my disbelief, we matched. We flirted back and forth for a few days, and then I asked her to send me a photo. When it arrived, I felt frozen. It was a picture of her when she was 20 one of the first photos we ever took together. Only now, she had cropped me out of it.

That evening, when I got home, I found her sitting on the edge of the bed, crying. Without saying much, she handed me a small box and asked me to open it. Inside was her wedding ring. My heart sank. She said she wanted to leave that she was deeply unhappy and had been for a long time. I told her I already knew about the dating app, and that I was the one she’d been talking to.