I’m sterile. I kept it from my first girlfriend for a long time because I was afraid that she would leave me.

When I finally told her, she actually did leave. I was depressed for a year and my other relationships all led to nothing.

About 6 months ago, I met a girl and fell madly in love, but I was afraid to tell her. Yesterday, I told her everything and she just looked at me and said that we could adopt in the future.

I was so relieved that I started crying and I knew then that I wanted to marry her.

That moment must have been incredibly powerful and emotional for you. Carrying that fear for so long, only to be met with love and acceptance, is truly beautiful. It’s understandable why you’d feel so overwhelmed with relief—finding someone who embraces you completely, including your vulnerabilities, is a rare and precious thing.

Your past experiences, though painful, led you to this moment where you found someone who truly values you for who you are. Her immediate response, filled with understanding and hope for a future together, shows the depth of her love and character.

This sounds like the kind of love that is built to last—one based on mutual respect, acceptance, and a shared vision for the future. You deserve happiness, and it seems like you’ve found a person who makes you feel truly safe and loved. Wishing you both a future full of love, joy, and whatever dreams you choose to build together.